Friday, June 16, 2017

Trinity = Self in Relationship

Last week I reminded us of the ancient Christian word to describe the Trinity:  perichoresis, which literally means “with dancing” or “dancing around.” I suggested that it is the character and nature of God’s personhood to be a unified Self and in eternal Relationship. I further suggested that, as those created in the image of this Trinitarian Fellowship of One, it is our eternal character and nature to express our humanity in relationship with God, self, others and the creation. Simply put: relationship is the core of our faith in worship and in prayer, in compassion and in mission, in who we are and how we live together in community.

Let me repeat that last thought: the God who eternally dances as Triune Fellowship of One teaches us who we are and how we live together in community, which means we are never fully and truly our Self unless and until we are fully and truly in relationship with others. Conversely, we are never fully and truly in community unless and until we are fully and truly our Self.

            “So, Brad, what does this mean for our lives as followers of Jesus?” Thanks for asking.

There is a need in our churches, communities and nation to learn to speak the truth in love to one another, as Paul exhorted the Ephesians (Ephesians 4:15), as well as seek the interests of others as Paul spoke to the Philippians (Philippians 2:4). For example:
·         When a fellow church member expresses a sour opinion about your pastor (organist, custodian, another member, et. al.) with which you don’t agree, do you go along to get along, or do you say, “I hear you but actually have a different perspective I’d like to share. Would that be okay with you?”
·         When in the midst of a Session meeting and the debate gets “robust” and “enthusiastic” around a particular idea, are you able to say, “I like x, y, and z about your idea but have concerns about a, b, and c. I’d love to hear you say more about these concerns and how you think this idea will address them.”

When addressing politics with a friend or colleague – left to right or right to left – can you speak the truth in love without descending to the level of the “politics of personal destruction” and express your concerns with both passion and compassion, both true to your Self and respectful
 of others?

My young adult son has a saying, “You be you, dad.” (Usually this is said when I have done something that reinforces his image of me as a dork.) I want to expand on my son’s quaint saying to express what it means for us to live as those created in the image of the Triune God who dances eternally: “You be you, I’ll be me, but let’s us be us together.” Might this be an ecclesiology on which we can build healthy practices for congregational ministry?

Grace and peace,

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